Feelings [ ? ] ♂ ♀

♂ ♀ Feelings...

OK, I guess I have to admit it. I am starting to like him but then again I'm trying to stop myself too. Sometimes I hate getting myself into situations where I don't know what the outcome will be. Sometimes they always say if you don't have any feelings you can't get hurt right? Girls [ ♀ ] are very different from guys. [ ♂ ].Especially when it comes to feelings. Have u ever liked someone who didn't feel the same way or you didn't know how they felt at all? Then, when u do find out how they feel, it's not what you thought it was. Well, I surely have and I know I don't wanna go through that again, ever. In a way this is kind of funny because beside this one { asshole } from a while ago, I haven't had any interest in anyone and then he comes along. Now this one guy, I won't say no names, lol, took me out, met my mom, spent all this time with me and everything. Yeah, he was cool, I liked him and then all of a sudden he ends up with a GF and I haven't heard from him since!! What kind of stuff is that?? This is what I am trying to avoid. Of course it's natural to catch some type of interest for someone. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to rush into anything but I just don't want to end up looking stupid in the end like last time. I say this because, we've been out once and he came over but that doesn't mean he likes me right? So I don't wanna get all "geeked up" [ LOL ] and then get my feelings hurt IF I find out he doesn't have any type of attraction to me what-so-ever. I know you are prolly thinking why don't I just ask him...well, I am kinda skeptical because I don't want him to get the wrong impression and think I'm trying to rush into things or anything like that. So I think I'll just give it time and wait for him to say something about it. I don't want it to seem like I am thinking so negative and saying that all guys are assholes, or bad people or something like that cuz I don't think that, I just don't want to get my feelings hurt and think that he likes me if he doesn't. Can you blame me?